My journey to become Relationships Coaching and Mentoring Specialist, an accredited coach by the ICF and and NLP practitioner was not straightforward. Few years ago, I was dealing mostly with machines, and I liked it because I had fears of dealing with people and constantly getting hurt. I was that nerd in the library who had books in their life more than people! As I got my bachelor’s degree in computer science and master’s degree in water resources, I worked in the technical field for several years, most of them were in water engineering.
Relationships are the source of life. When we connect and communicate, we build something bigger and more beautiful together. But for this to happen, this connection needs to be based on love and support, which in turn brings happiness and fulfillment in all areas of life.
Unfortunately, most of us did not grow up in a loving family and experienced unconditional love. We end up feeling lonely, rejected, and confused. Home is no more the warm, tender, caring, and nourishing container for you.
How scary this can be!
I know how frustrating it is to be continuously misunderstood, not be able to express your emotions and have fears of not being loved or losing someone you already love.
The daydream of having a fulfilling relationship becomes a nightmare when you start asking yourself every day and night:
“Am I meant to be in this loop?”
“Am I meant to be alone?”
“Am I singled out in this misery?”
“What if I couldn’t find my soulmate?”
“Am I the right person for him/her?”
“What is wrong with me?”
The good news is you are not alone! Many people had similar experiences like you, and I helped them to break out of this loop, let go of the past, love themselves unconditionally, to express their thoughts and emotions freely, and to re-write their stories of love and life. Yes! You can have a different, happier life! You can find your soulmate! And you can together build your happy kingdom!